Filed under: Fetish & Erotica, Lifestyle Roles, News | Tags: Danica, Dominatrix, Donna Ambrose, donna collins, fem dom fascination, female domination, Mistress, mistress of the month
She’s probably the best known MILF on the internet – and to my mind that ‘M’ in MILF stands for ‘Mistress’ – while the other three letters in the anagram are too disrespectful to even think about.
Donna Ambrose, Mistress of the Month
This past September has been a busy one at La Fong Headquarters. We’re in production, using new DSLR cameras in High Definition Video mode, recording all our audio with the amazing Zoom digital Recorder – our wireless microphones cleverly concealed – and editing in Final Cut Pro. Sorry to get all technical in this post – which is meant to be a celebration of the Mistress who has most captured our attention during the month – but when you have 500 gigabytes of raw content, with sparkling clarity and amazing sound, you tend to let everything else go off the radar.
But I can’t let September pass into October without a salute to Donna Ambrose, (aka Danica, aka Donna Collins) – the British model I have admired for the past 25 years or so when she first started working alongside well-known Brit ladies of the time such as Aunt Pat, Zoe and Debbie Jordan. In fact, on a shelf somewhere I’ve still got 35mm Ektachrome slides of an outdoor session she did with Debbie in the late 80s at London’s Kew Gardens.
We worship at her feet
After all this time, it’s remarkable that Donna is still so beautiful and busy in front of the camera. Although she often works for Lady Sonia, I think her best fetish work is still ahead of her – in front of the brand new DSLR cameras manned by Carl La Fong and his happy crew. I’ll be over in Europe early next year, so I promise to contact the delightful Ms. Ambrose and see if I can persuade her to explore her Dominatrix personality La Fong-style. Until then, I hope you will enjoy these pictures of our Mistress of the Month.
Donna or Danica. It's all good.
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How fast a month goes. Here we are with Mistress of the Month again. As the month began, I thought Monica Bellucci would be the front-runner.
Ms. Monica Bellucci in "Malena"
But Ms. Bellucci, although beautiful, is just too darn sweet. And ‘sweet’ doesn’t cut it. I was momentarily distracted by that delicious chanteuse, Ms. China Moses…
Ms. China Moses
… whose calculated femininity suggests she is aware of her power. Then I wondered if pole-vaulter Ms. Allison Stokke, internet phenom, might be worthy…
Ms. Allison Stokke
But finally, the kudos must go to a lady who has courageously sought to inflame and enslave us all, at great personal risk. Ms. Sheyla Hershey, the Brazilian beauty whose repeated surgeries augmented her bosom to an incredible 38KKK has reportedly suffered complications following her most recent augmentation and the rumor is that she has now had a drastic procedure to undo all the enlargements that brought her fame and a place in the Guinness Book of World Records. I wish Ms. Hershey well – and I salute her. Carl La Fong’s Mistress of the Month, August 2010.
Mistress of the Month: Ms. Sheyla Hershey
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Style is important in a domme. Attitude is vital. Not the snarling, faux-dominatrix domme we’re familiar with. No – an attitude of intelligence, superiority and quiet strength is required. Add to that a generous helping of beauty that is out of a mere man’s reach — and I think we can agree that Eva Mendes in Frank Miller’s “The Spirit” is a powerful female able to command anything she choses.
And so here we are – the Inaugural Mistress of the Month event. Carl La Fong is pleased to present the first Domme to grace the Archives. Ms. Eva Mendes as “Sand Saref”:
Eva Mendes, Mistress of the Month, July 2010
I’ve talked about the La Fong style in several posts. I wonder if you can see from the above still what I mean. Look at the neo-noir lighting. The clean space that somehow feels isolated and separated from the outside world. Notice the heavy furniture. Notice the hesitant male – about to learn his fate. Note particularly that his posture is slumped – but he is taller and bigger than the woman who confronts him with such ease and confidence. Notice that she ignores the man behind her. Is he her lover? He doesn’t seem submissive enough to be her slave or pet. The scene is instantly intriguing, isn’t it? Note also, if you will, that she is dressed in a way that pleases her. She’s expensive. She has chosen her clothes herself. She is aware of her femininity, yet dresses to express herself powerfully. She is absolutely not dressing to arouse a man. She is not revealing herself to anyone, yet she is revealed subtly. She commands respect. And obedience.
Eva Mendes, Mistress of the Month, July 2010
You will see from the above still, that the La Fong neo-noir lighting scheme is present. Still the same isolation and separation from the “real” world. But now we have an almost claustrophobic intimacy. The Domme is completely secure and confident in her nudity. The man hesitates by the door. His feet are not firmly planted. He is unsure before this female power. Humbled by her Gynocracy. Her nakedness – her perfect nakedness – promises paradise. But from her posture it is clear that such delights must be earned. And given only to those who are worthy of it.
I know that some of you may think back to another film, made in the neo-noir comic book style – “Sin City” – and to Rosario Dawson’s portrayal of dominatrix “Gail”. Oh, foolish thoughts. One glance will tell you that brilliant though Ms Dawson is, her dominatrix does not pass the strict La Fong criteria. No, ladies and gentlemen. I give you Mistress of the Month – Ms. Eva Mendes as “Sand Saref”. And if you haven’t seen “The Spirit”, it’s worth it for Ms. Mendes alone.
Eva Mendes, Mistress of the Month, July 2010
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Further to last month’s post about the La Fong Fem Dom style, I thought it would be instructive to introduce a “Mistress of the Month” featuring a domme who perfectly captures the correct attitude and spirit. We’ll start this month – so watch this space.
Filed under: BDSM, Fetish & the Internet | Tags: domination, fem dom, female domination, fetish, gyncocracy
Central to the Carl La Fong style is how to interpret the nature of ‘female domination of the male’. In my searches around the ‘adult’ web, I rarely find anything that truly reflects the fem dom fetish as I understand it.
My views on ‘faux’ fetish have already been expressed in earlier posts. True fem dom fetish requires models able to deliver the correct attitude with sincerity – not simply by snarling and cracking a bullwhip while dressed in cheap latex.
Fem Dom isn’t always about brutality – just as male domination of submissive females isn’t about beating someone until they bleed, or choking them dangerously.
Once again, I think we’re in an area where the people who are providing much of the content (with some obvious exceptions) don’t understand what they’re dealing with. I’d be prepared to bet that the majority of men interested in being dominated by a superior female aren’t that interested in the more extreme and violent aspects of the game. Yet that’s mostly what’s being delivered to us by content providers.
Long ago and far away, there was a self-published magazine out of someplace like West Virginia called ‘Gynocracy’. It held true to the belief that men could be held in thrall by full-dressed dominant women whose every command was obeyed – under the threat of mild-to-severe corporal punishment, strict discipline, bondage, feminization, “queening” and the with-holding of orgasm.
The focus was on a relationship between the domme and the sub, that didn’t require the virtual maiming or bodily injury that seems so prevalent in today’s fetish culture.
This idea of a “relationship” (which, to be fair, Kink.com tries hard to foster) meant that the concept of Respect between domme and sub was truly important. Again, precious little of current content attempts to portray that vital component.
Once that component is in place – either in real-life or fantasy content, and provided it is portrayed authentically and sincerely, it opens up a whole new experience for both domme and sub.
It is entirely possible for the most exquisite sensations to be discovered in the presence of a non-nude domme – if the domme presents herself with an attitude that demands Respect.
I, for one, would want content that explored that concept and attitude – rather than the quick, shorthand of brutality and extreme posturing, which entirely lacks credibility. When I look for fem dom content, I’m quickly passing over the extreme and the nasty. Not because I’m a prude – but because it’s not Fem Dom! Female Domination is a head-game played between Sub and Domme. You don’t need a pair of pliers and vice. You just need the implication of severity. You don’t even need nudity. In fact, lack of nudity is probably more arousing to the true sub.
