The La Fong Archives


(M)istress (ILF) of the Month

She’s probably the best known MILF on the internet – and to my mind that ‘M’ in MILF stands for ‘Mistress’ – while the other three letters in the anagram are too disrespectful to even think about.

Donna Ambrose, Mistress of the Month

This past September has been a busy one at La Fong Headquarters. We’re in production, using new DSLR cameras in High Definition Video mode, recording all our audio with the amazing Zoom digital Recorder – our wireless microphones cleverly concealed – and editing in Final Cut Pro. Sorry to get all technical in this post – which is meant to be a celebration of the Mistress who has most captured our attention during the month – but when you have 500 gigabytes of raw content, with sparkling clarity and amazing sound, you tend to let everything else go off the radar.

But I can’t let September pass into October without a salute to Donna Ambrose, (aka Danica, aka Donna Collins) – the British model I have admired for the past 25 years or so when she first started working alongside well-known Brit ladies of the time such as Aunt Pat, Zoe and Debbie Jordan. In fact, on a shelf somewhere I’ve still got 35mm Ektachrome slides of an outdoor session she did with Debbie in the late 80s at London’s Kew Gardens.

We worship at her feet

After all this time, it’s remarkable that Donna is still so beautiful and busy in front of the camera. Although she often works for Lady Sonia,  I think her best fetish work is still ahead of her – in front of the brand new DSLR cameras manned by Carl La Fong and his happy crew. I’ll be over in Europe early next year, so I promise to contact the delightful Ms. Ambrose and see if I can persuade her to explore her Dominatrix personality La Fong-style. Until then, I hope you will enjoy these pictures of our Mistress of the Month.

Donna or Danica. It's all good.



Ms. Eva Mendes, July 2010 Mistress of the Month!

Style is important in a domme. Attitude is vital. Not the snarling, faux-dominatrix domme we’re familiar with. No – an attitude of intelligence, superiority and quiet strength is required. Add to that a generous helping of beauty that is out of a mere man’s reach — and I think we can agree that Eva Mendes in Frank Miller’s “The Spirit” is a powerful female able to command anything she choses.

And so here we are – the Inaugural Mistress of the Month event. Carl La Fong is pleased to present the first Domme to grace the Archives. Ms. Eva Mendes as “Sand Saref”:

Eva Mendes, Mistress of the Month, July 2010

I’ve talked about the La Fong style in several posts. I wonder if you can see from the above still what I mean. Look at the neo-noir lighting. The clean space that somehow feels isolated and separated from  the outside world. Notice the heavy furniture. Notice the hesitant male – about to learn his fate. Note particularly that his posture is slumped – but he is taller and bigger than the woman who confronts him with such ease and confidence. Notice that she ignores the man behind her. Is he her lover? He doesn’t seem submissive enough to be her slave or pet. The scene is instantly intriguing, isn’t it? Note also, if you will, that she is dressed in a way that pleases her. She’s expensive. She has chosen her clothes herself.  She is aware of her femininity, yet dresses to express herself powerfully. She is absolutely not dressing to arouse a man. She is not revealing herself to anyone, yet she is revealed subtly. She commands respect. And obedience.

Eva Mendes, Mistress of the Month, July 2010

You will see from the above still, that the La Fong neo-noir lighting scheme is present. Still the same isolation and separation from the “real” world. But now we have an almost claustrophobic intimacy. The Domme is completely secure and confident in her nudity. The man hesitates by the door. His feet are not firmly planted. He is unsure before this female power. Humbled by her Gynocracy. Her nakedness – her perfect nakedness – promises paradise. But from  her posture it is clear that such delights must be earned. And given only to those who are worthy of it.

I know that some of you may think back to another film, made in the neo-noir comic book style – “Sin City” – and to Rosario Dawson’s portrayal of dominatrix “Gail”. Oh, foolish thoughts. One glance will tell you that brilliant though Ms Dawson is, her dominatrix does not pass the strict La Fong criteria. No, ladies and gentlemen. I give you Mistress of the Month – Ms. Eva Mendes as “Sand Saref”. And if you haven’t seen “The Spirit”, it’s worth it for Ms. Mendes alone.

Eva Mendes, Mistress of the Month, July 2010



Fetish Review

Despite economic downturn, promises that were not kept, and delay after delay – zero hour  is finally approaching. My original intention was to roll out the first of my pay sites, Fem Dom Fascination, in Fall ’08 — but my best laid plans failed to materialize.

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Am I Making My Domme a Sex Object?

Yes. You probably are. But she’s aware of that and you’ll pay for it! Here’s the thing. If a Dominatrix gets dressed up in Fetish Costume and acts out a Fantasy created to fulfill your wishes and desires, you can’t really claim that you’re the Submissive, can you? The Dominatrix has acceded to your wishes. You are the Dominant! And because you – the Male – have used the power of your money and/or your demand, or even the power of your love and acceptance, to achieve your satisfaction… well, I have to tell you. You have made your “Dominatrix” a sex object! You have “objectized” her just as surely as Allen Jones has sculpted a piece of Fetish sculpture for your enjoyment.

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