The La Fong Archives


The Transgressive Life: Dark Eros, Forbidden Fruit (2)

My previous post in this 2-part series ended with the observation, echoed by Tantric author and teacher John Hawken, that transgressive sexuality seems to inevitably lead the jaded practitioner into evermore dark and possibly harmful or unhappy situations.

I have made a promise that Carl La Fong-branded Fetish sites will not be stepping-stones into extreme material – but the web is a wide open space, so what’s to stop someone becoming jaded with my fetish world and seeking out something more extreme to satisfy their transgressive impulses?

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The Transgressive Life: Dark Eros, Forbidden Fruit (1)

I’ve been meaning to write about the Tantric concept of Dark Eros for some time, and feel that some of the elements discussed will lead relatively easily into Sex Magick – which also deserves some delving into. Dark Eros and Sex Magick are huge subjects – much too deep for the Archives to do much more than skim the surface. Dark Eros, particularly, informs the La Fong world view of Fetish, and is the intellectual and psychological foundation of each niche site that I intend to launch. So here’s a word on that.

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Fetish Review

I’m rolling out my new niche site FemDom Fascination in just a few months and I’ve begun to look at the competition. The review sites – like Fetish Fish and Rabbit Review – have plenty of interesting pay sites listed in the Fem Dom category. 78 in the case of Fish, and 86 for Rabbit. Lady Sonia comes high up on both lists – and you know what I think of Lady S.  In fact, if you’ve been following my posts, you’ll probably be getting a sense that I don’t think very highly of any of the pay sites out there. And you’d be right – but I do have my favorites.

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Bella Donna

Imagine my delight to see UK model Donna Ambrose (aka Donna Collins) back on the scene. And my despair to see that she is modeling for the hugely-popular Lady Sonia site. I have to say that Lady Sonia is not one of my favorite fetish sites. Although the technical quality is ‘okay’, the content misses the point. When it does hit the mark I always get the feeling its by accident rather than design.

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