The La Fong Archives


Fetish Review

Despite economic downturn, promises that were not kept, and delay after delay – zero hour  is finally approaching. My original intention was to roll out the first of my pay sites, Fem Dom Fascination, in Fall ’08 — but my best laid plans failed to materialize.

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Can Real Men be Subs?

You know. Subbing ain’t for sissies. Not unless they’re Sissies! There’s a lot of contempt out there for Subs, and that’s a damn shame. Some of this springs from the idea that the majority of men who enjoy submitting in a fantasy situation to a dominant female are, in their “real” lives, men of Power. Judges, Bankers, Politicians, Lawyers, Movie Producers. There’s some truth in that. It’s a mental vacation to be able to spend an hour or two being ordered about and disciplined when you’ve spent the day hiring, firing and making a big deal about everything. But when the public learns that such men have ‘lowered’ and ‘demeaned’ themselves to Dommes, the judgment is harsh.

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Am I Making My Domme a Sex Object?

Yes. You probably are. But she’s aware of that and you’ll pay for it! Here’s the thing. If a Dominatrix gets dressed up in Fetish Costume and acts out a Fantasy created to fulfill your wishes and desires, you can’t really claim that you’re the Submissive, can you? The Dominatrix has acceded to your wishes. You are the Dominant! And because you – the Male – have used the power of your money and/or your demand, or even the power of your love and acceptance, to achieve your satisfaction… well, I have to tell you. You have made your “Dominatrix” a sex object! You have “objectized” her just as surely as Allen Jones has sculpted a piece of Fetish sculpture for your enjoyment.

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